- The Legal Documents Can Be Confusing—and That’s Okay
There are so many forms: visa requirements, I-20s, health insurance, work authorization… and it can feel overwhelming, especially when the language and rules are unfamiliar. I used to stress out about getting everything right until I realized: you’re not expected to do this alone. The International Student & Scholar Services (ISSS) office is there to help you. They’ve seen it all, and they want to help. So if you’re confused—ask! It’s way better than guessing.
- The Academic System Might Be Very Different
If you’re coming from a more lecture-based or exam-heavy education system, the U.S. might surprise you—especially in majors like social sciences. Here, learning is often interactive and discussion-based. Your opinion matters. Professors may expect you to speak up in class, join debates, or collaborate in group projects. It can be intimidating at first, but also really exciting. Over time, I found myself growing more confident in my ideas—and that’s something I didn’t expect.
- Finding Friends Takes Time—And That’s Normal
I’m going to be honest: my first year was lonely. I didn’t know anyone. I didn’t understand the humor or social cues. I felt like everyone already had their friend groups. But slowly, that changed. I started joining student clubs, attending events, and saying “yes” to small things—like grabbing coffee or helping out at a cultural night. That’s how I met people who became my closest friends. The key is to open up. Don’t rush it. Don’t compare your journey. Feeling lonely at first is completely normal.
- Use Campus Resources—Seriously, They Help
One thing I underestimated was how many free resources are available on campus to help students thrive. From wellness workshops and mental health support to writing programs and cultural centers, these services are designed for students like us. Whether you need academic support, someone to talk to, or a quiet place to recharge—there’s always something on campus to help you feel supported.
Looking back, I realize that being an international student isn’t just about studying abroad—it’s about learning how to adapt, connect, and grow in a whole new world. And while it’s not always easy, you’re stronger than you think—and you’re never truly alone.